Another year older. A little more wisdom, and definitely a few less illusions.
First off—thank you to everyone who took a minute out of their day to wish me well. I appreciate it from the bottom of my heart. ❤️
Getting older hits differently now. It’s less about the number and more about the reality checks. Time has a funny way of stripping away masks and the assumptions I used to hold about relationships. I’ve learned the hard way that you can't force someone to value you, you can't buy loyalty, and just calling someone "yours" doesn't make them stay. You quickly figure out who makes time for you, and who only shows up when it's convenient.
But in the process, you find your real ones. You realize it’s not about the crowd around you, but the few who actually stand by your side when things get tough—the ones who don't need a deep explanation, they just hold your hand and get it.
I’m still very much a work in progress, trying every day to be a better son, brother, friend, and human. Honestly, some lessons have broken me. But there's a strange beauty in that: when you figure out how to put yourself back together, you eventually learn how to hold others together, too.
People will always see what they want to see, often preferring an easy lie over a hard truth. But as that iconic line in Baazigar says: “Haar kar jeetne wale ko hi Baazigar kehte hain.”
I don't know if I'll win every battle or become exactly who I dream of being, but the game is far from over.
So, here’s to another year of messing up, learning, healing, growing, and playing my Baazi. 🥂 Let’s see what time has in store. ❤️
Sadar, Varanasi | Aug 12, 2026